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MOTIVATION FROM WITHIN
By: Coach Jim Massaro
Over and over you hear the
same words being spoken about the lack of
motivation being displayed in our young athletes
today. Hard for me to understand when there are
college scholarships out there in excess of
hundreds of thousands of dollars. Imagine being
able to go to a great school, get an education,
play the sport you love, and it costs you or
your parents nothing. Better yet, maybe you are
one of the select few who are talented enough to
move on to the next level. That's right, make it
to the pros. Hey, you know how it is: get your
ass kissed by everyone and get paid millions to
play the sport that you love. What a great time
we are living in. So now explain to me why most
of the athletes out there don't take advantage
of what is available to them. Are they lazy or
is it a lack of motivation? Give me a break and
wake up and realize that mommy and daddy aren't
going to do it for you. You have to be able to
push yourself. You must have a burning desire
that cannot be extinguished no matter what.
There will be plenty of bumps along the way,
maybe some damn big ones, but you must never
lose your motivation to push yourself to be the
very best. Prepare yourself to the max and
chances are you will win that fight nine out of
ten times. Too many personal battles are lost
through lack of motivation.
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"The quality of a person's life is in
direct proportion to their commitment to
excellence, regardless of their chosen
field of endeavor."
-Coach
Vincent Lombardi
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The football program that I
am involved with is the only program in the
county that has a strength coach. Sure, the
other programs have coaches in the weight room,
but basically all they are doing is babysitting.
I work solely with the Renegade programs,
utilizing the "Wheel of Conditioning" so when
our players step foot on the field, no one is
better prepared. Yet, motivation is still
missing. Oh yeah, there are a select few that I
can count on to show up. I know some guys that
will chew the lock off the door to the weight
room if I'm late opening the room. But then
there are those others, the ones with all the
excuses: "I have to catch the bus," or "I have
to go to the mall," and countless other stories.
All they want to do is wear the jersey and not
put any effort into wearing it with pride. Nor
does it stop at the high school level. I have a
kid who I am getting ready for the combines in
Atlanta in June. He tells me that he can't do
his speed or agility work without me at the
track with him! This is the deal: you're going
for the biggest tryout of your life, a chance at
pro football. If that isn't enough motivation, I
don't know what is. My God, if that can't
motivate you, how the hell am I supposed to?
It's just like the society we
live in today. Obesity is running wild. You're
50 pounds overweight, can't walk up the stairs
without stopping for a rest and gasping for air.
But yet your only motivation is for that next
Big Mac. Corporations spend thousands of dollars
a year to motivate their employees by bringing
in motivational speakers to stimulate growth in
the individual. My feeling is that being the
best at what you do should be all the motivation
you need. Who wants to fail and feel like an
idiot in front of their peers? The problem is, I
think too many people don't really care. Just
getting by is good enough; wanting to be the
best is too much work.
Motivation, according
to the dictionary: to provide with or affect as,
a motive or motives. While that may be the
dictionary's version, I find mine through
humiliation. That's right. Whenever I compete
either in football, powerlifting, miniature golf
or anything competitive, I feel that my
competition is out to humiliate me, not just
beat me! There is no way on earth that I'm going
to let that happen! This is the attitude that I
carry with me throughout my whole training
regimen. I have no reason to like my opponent
because they are there to beat and humiliate me.
This is not acceptable. About 15 years ago I
thought I was a runner. Not a jogger who thinks
he's a runner but a real runner. When I went to
the track to run I had to beat everyone on the
track. It did not matter the age or the sex. I
was going to show them who the best one out
there was even if it meant spitting up blood.
This is the code that I live by every day,
motivated to be the best at whatever I do.
Whether it is as an athlete or in my
professional career, I strive to be the best.
Throughout all of my training, even to this day,
I don't believe anyone is better than I am. I
push myself for long and hard hours of training
so no one can keep me from my goal without
putting up a great fight. This is the mind game
I play to motivate myself.
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“Every
addition to true knowledge is an
addition to human power.” -Horace
Mann, US educator,
the first great American advocate of
public education, 1796-1859 |
You must be able to motivate
yourself. You must feel that no one wants it
more than you do and you are willing to work
harder than anyone. Just when you think you did
enough work, do more. Someone is out there to
humiliate you. When you can't motivate yourself,
you are heading down the path of
self-destruction. It must come from within.
There are many new tools out there today: better
training methods, better nutritional
information, and qualified coaches to advise
you, but you must be the one to dig down real
deep to see how much you want and how hard you
are willing to work to achieve you goals. Never
be afraid to set the bar too high and make your
competition rise to your level. Self- motivation
is your greatest training tool.
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